June 21, 2019

EFFECTS OF RELATIONSHIP WITH NEGATIVE PARTNER

EFFECTS OF RELATIONSHIP WITH NEGATIVE PARTNER


Being in relationship with negative partner comes with a lot of effect which toxify ones life, growth and hinder one been successful.

Just like communication is a strong life of a healthy and positive relationship, the lack of it means that the relationship is negative, unhealthy, toxic and about to die. Negative partner exhibits criticism and ridicule, disengagement, constant judgement, nonstop narcissism, passive aggressive behaviour, lost of emotional intimacy, lack of communication et al.
Effects of relationship with negative partner

Effects of relationship with negative partner: 

Negative partner causes lot of havoc in relationship that it out weighs the benefits of a good relationship. The few effects are listed below;.

1.YOUR LIFE BECOMES DORMANT;
If you're in a relationship with a negative individual, they will revel in stagnation and negative thinking and they really do not want to grow, thereby affecting your spurt/enlargement.
The only way not to have a dormant relationship is to get Clichy with some one who is moving forward, goal oriented and will help you move forward with yours. Positive partners aim high and advocate for success,they have their foot in the gas pedal while negative partner has their on a foot on the brake.

2. DERAILED YOU OFF FOCUS WITH DRAMA;
Negative partners are most time dramatic in nature, and they do have many dramatic things going on in their life. At times its not bad to be dramatic, but when its getting toxic and you continually accept them, it shift you off focus and its detrimental. They won't be able to dish advice, help and support in most cases and will definitely alter change in your own planned life.

They continually thrive on drama and believe me, its not something you need in your life, because sooner or later they involve you as a character in the drama, With their attitude, they affect yours, limit your altitude. "Don't let negative and toxic being rent a space in your head, raise the rent and kick them out".

3. YOU LACK ENCOURAGEMENT;
Negative partners don't have good words of encouragement to propel a relationship or life. They act not only negative, they are also good at discouraging you and spilling you a negative feedback, and even making their utterance make sense.

Has human, life is not a bed of roses, there will be struggling and time to face adversity, all you need is someone who will be readily available to encourage and support you, someone who push you not to relent, convince you that things can be done. "You need someone to lift you up not knock you down".

4. DAMAGE YOUR CREDIBILITY:
When you are in relationship with negative partner, they have a say on your credibility. People tends to have same view and misconception which they have for them for you too. When you hang or become Clichy to negative individual, small minded people, it makes you look negative and small minded yourself, caging your potential explosion.
Negative partners do not only pollute partner but also those they come in contact with, and this damage your credibility.

5. THEY DRAIN THE ENERGY FOR VISION AND PURPOSE;
When you accept to go into relationship with negative individual or you're already with a negative partner, it drains the strength, energy to thrive hard to fulfil purpose and vision.

When you're with a positive partner who are enthusiastic, they raise your energy level, but the negative ones drain. Positive partner walk into your life and you receive auction, energy level increase to attain purpose,but negative ones suck out the energy and makes the relationship and life been truncated.
Effects of relationship with negative partner

6. MISERABLE LIFE;
Life is short, and should be spend wisely with joy and happiness, but when you cling to a negative partner, they tend to make life miserable and kill the happiness you once experience or crave for with their act or behavior.

Relationship entails connection, healthy loving one with good intimacy, but you can have a quality life and relationship by been with a positive and quality partner. Get rid of negative being and get cling to positive one to bring you joy and happiness expected.

7. BRINGS ABOUT TOXIC THINKING;
Negative partners in negative and toxic thinking and negative reinforcement, unlike positive ones that give you positive vibes when you have doubts and convince you that you're wrong and you can do it other way round. When you hang yourself to a negative partner and listen to them, they start impacting and soon you realize that instead of thinking positively, you are thinking negatively and this affect your believe system. "You cannot hang out with negative partner and expert to live a positive life".



At the end, it is up to you to decide what kind of partner you’re going to be in relationship with, and the kinds of people you’re going to spend your time with. 
I strongly recommend that if you have negative partner, try to convince them to be positive minded but if you perceive they are not willing to change, you should end the relationship. If you have negative family members and friends, we should spend as little time with them as possible. I am certain that if you eliminate negative partner from your life you will be more successful, far more productive and truly happy. 

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