November 21, 2019

Words That Sustains Relationship.


You will agree with me that words goes a long way in our heart. One way to express love emotionally is to use words
that build up.The tongue has the power of life and death.
Many couple / partners have never learned the tremendous power of verbally affirming each other. You will agree that An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up.
❄Verbal compliments, or words of appreciation, are powerful communicators of love. They are best expressed in simple, straightforward statements of affirmation,.
Words that sustains relationship

Whether it's a simple compliment to kick off your partner's day or something deeper, these words of affirmation are the kind of stuff your spouse wants to hear every morning/day and saying them will really strengthen your bond.๐ŸŽฏ

Without further ado, the words that your partner wanna hear from you, that will build them up to do well in that relationship and marriage.

1 .Words of Encouragement:
๐Ÿ’ฅGiving verbal compliments is only  one way to express words of affirmation to your spouse. The word encourage means “to inspire courage.”All of us  have areas in which we feel insecure. We lack courage, and that lack of courage often hinders us from accomplishing the positive things that we would like to do.
The latent potential within your spouse in his or her areas of insecurity may await your encouraging words.
Encouragement requires empathy and seeing the world from your spouse’s perspective.

๐ŸŽฏ We must first learn what is important to our spouse. Only then can we give encouragement.
 With verbal encouragement, we are trying to communicate, “I know. I care. I am with you. How can I help?”
We are trying to show that we believe in him/her and in his/her abilities. We are giving credit and praise.❤❤

2 .Tell your partner you’re lucky to have him/her:
Human take great pride in feeling like they've bettered our lives.
If you're feeling lucky in love, don't keep those thoughts to yourself: Tell your significant other exactly how you feel.

3. Appreciate your partner:
Love can be fickle and desire could wane over time and fade oo.
 Letting your partner know that you appreciate all they do for you will incentivize them to continue their good and want to keep on with such act and behavior... Majority of partners are lacking in this aspect and its disheartening ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜“

4. Spoil your partner with kind words:
Love is kind. If then we are to communicate love verbally, we must use kind words. That has to do with the way we speak. The same sentence can have two different meanings, depending on how you say it. The statement “I love you,” when said with kindness and tenderness, can be
a genuine expression of love.

Sometimes our words are saying one thing, but our tone of voice is saying another.We are sending double messages. Our spouse will usually interpret our message based on our tone of voice, not the words we use.
The manner in which we speak is exceedingly important.
Its said that “A soft answer turns away anger.” When your spouse is angry and upset and lashing out words of heat, if you choose to be loving you will not reciprocate with additional heat but with a soft voice.

Also, This is in regards forgiveness and things you say. Love doesn’t keep a score of wrongs. Love doesn’t bring up past failures. None of us is perfect. In marriage/relationship we do not always do the best or right thing. We have sometimes done and said hurtful things to our spouses. We cannot erase the past, We can only confess it and agree that it was wrong. We can ask for forgiveness all with a kind words.

5. Apologise when you’re wrong:
We tend to wanna claim right most time, Women are famed for always wanting to be right even when they are blatantly wrong๐Ÿคช๐Ÿคช.
It is a common thing to hear people say that a man must be willing and ready to apologise every time even if he’s not the wrong one.
By reversing this silly rule,  show your partner that you are more concerned about making things right than with your ego.
Just set a reasonable standard and set a good principles. Sorry goes a longgggg way... it should not cost us anything to utter at alll๐Ÿ”Š๐Ÿ”Š

6. Tell your partner how he/she gonna be good father/mother:
We are usually measured by how responsible we are for family/ commitment to relationship and also  our homes, especially those who are married.๐Ÿ™‡‍♀๐Ÿ™‡‍♀
 So it means a lot to partners to hear that they are not messing up on that front especially when it comes to how the kids are being nurtured or how their families are being cared for.
This compliment reinforces their work and sacrifice for the family, hmmmmm increasing their desire to continue. That, in turn, strengthens the family unit/ relationship and creates a bond of pride and greater involvement of the other party in anything they want to do.
I mean it keeps them in shape together ๐Ÿ˜š

7. I’m proud of you:
Verbalize this to ur partner, let his/her head burst๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ซ
We are all very sensitive to performance issues.
As a good partner worry about  not disappointing your spouse.
Telling your spouse that he/she is the best, most loving partner has a megawatt positive impact and pierces marrow and heart๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ซ.
Human need reassurance that they are doing a good job." Reassurance and validation will go a long way in making ur partner know that they are doing right by you..

Be Vigilant, conscious and Careful in Relationship.

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